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Importance of Emotional Interactions

Memory is tied to emotion. We usually remember a situation not because of the facts but because of the how we felt when it was happening. All our thoughts that we had took place together with the emotions we were experiencing. When we want to talk about it to whom it may concern, we want to do it at the time when we were still able to feel the emotions vividly. That is why your emotions are more real than your thoughts. Your feelings are more intelligent than your purely rational and emotion lacking thoughts.

The fallacy of not engaging in communication or to talk it out until a certain amount of time has passed in order to “cool off” is that, those emotions will no longer be as readily felt and therefore whatever you wanted to say is no longer are clear as before. This time, the conversation is no longer as authentic as it would have been if it was allowed to take place when you were still feeling the emotions, because you are not able to say all that you wanted to say. It has to wait until the next time some of the things you didn’t talk about took place again and it triggers the same emotions, then are you able to remember and talk about it.

Don’t you see the incredible stupidity of this? Those who are afraid and too weak to engage in emotional conversations cause the same patterns of undesirable events to happen over and over again because every time the parties involved are feeling the emotions, they don’t want to talk about it. They’d rather wait until another time when the emotions are less strong so that they can talk about it in a less emotional way. The advice of “let’s talk about it after we have cooled off” just doesn’t cut it, especially when it comes to the fact that emotions are the essence of the communication. You should talk about it when you are feeling it! What is there to talk about when you no longer feel it? Other than the usual “Oh, it’s ok now”, “what’s past is past”, “I can’t really remember everything I wanted to say”, there is absolutely nothing!

Can you feel the emotions of how stupid this really is? Well, that is how you will remember all these insights. Sometimes the “common wisdom” of the world may not be truly that wise after all.

But still, the wisdom of “waiting awhile after feeling emotional before expressing yourself” is true in some sense. You should wait for awhile but not too long and not too short. Take enough time to consider your feelings before expressing them so that it will not be a reaction but a response. When you are clear that the thing you are going to say or do is an authentic one, then go ahead and say or do it along with the emotion you are feeling. That is the whole key, to respond instead of to react but to respond quickly before the intention or emotional energy that goes with it dies down and you are left with a weaker response when you make it later.

Since memory is tied to emotion, you can still remember the things you wanted to say even after quite some time has passed by concentrating of the emotion and allowing the thoughts to return back to consciousness through it. Everything is energy and memory is energy. You have to feel back the energy of the emotion in order to feel back the memory.

Emotion is energy in motion. Perceive your emotion. An emotion can run without your conscious realization until you feel and become aware of it. You can also access the memory by carrying out the same physical motion or putting yourself in the same situation of things in motion around you when the memory formed. You can also do it mentally. You remember by reexperiencing the same energy in motion of the event.

Voicing your frustrations, anger and unhappiness with a spouse or loved one is also especially useful, helpful and liberating. Because after telling all those things, expressing your hurt and saying what you wish to happen and what not to. And that person has listened to you and your feelings and you felt heard, has understood you and feel what you feel, you can then give that person a hug and tell him/her that you love him/her.

Ideal relationships involve becoming authentic in the presence of another person and inviting that person to be authentic as well. This is the high road of relationship. But so long as the motivating force behind our relationships is fear, we will cling to masks even in our closest relationships and then wonder why our experience of intimacy is so empty.

What brings people closer together? The answer is emotion. All emotion is energy in motion. We are all beings of energy and when we experience emotion, we are being moved in one way or another. Whenever you experience an emotion whether positive or negative with someone, you form a connection with that person. The stronger the emotion, the stronger the connection. Emotions can be transmuted from one polarity to another. That is why “intense hate” can come from intense love. When a person you really love does something you really dislike, you would feel “intense hate” about it.

The person you really want to be with is the person who you can feel a lot of emotion with. An emotional relationship with lots of intense emotions experienced with a mix of both positive and negative ones would result in it being highly addictive for you and the other. That is because there will be a lot of creating, building up, experiencing and expressing of emotions. It is like a roller coaster ride that takes your emotions up and down and all over the place. You can feel extreme exhilaration one moment and immense depression the next. You can feel really blissful and contented at one time but then feel really disappointed, frustrated and angry at another time. There is a lot of venting, crying, hugging, comforting, getting pissed off, being in a daze, sighing, rejoicing. It is just so moving, so touching and beautiful and totally out of this world crazy like hell and heaven at the same time.

Truly, what you really feel out of all the insane and wonderful emotional experience is a lot of pleasure. The building up and expressing of emotion is the building up and releasing of tension. Which results in the experience of pleasure.

Pleasure is the psychic result of releasing tension, excitation or stimulus which arises within an organism. Pleasure seeks to culminate, to store up and release. The way to experience pleasure is to build up tension and release it. Pleasure is felt even in the process of building up tension because of an internal release taking place at the same time. There is a kind of pleasure where tension is build up and released at the same time. Feelings, vibrations or resonance are the process of tension and release. Vibrations move in and out, tension and release. Increased magnitude of vibration or combined multiple smaller vibrations results in increased pleasure.

The closest thing to describing vibration and feeling is music. The resonant, the shimmering, the multiple sounds, the sharp and mellow sound combination and the up-down emotional momentum are the most pleasure inducing effects in music and everything else. Pleasure and tension builds up from the energy and rhythm of things in flow. There are two kinds of pleasure that can be felt depending on the kind of vibration being experienced. One is the peaceful, gentle and soothing kind of pleasure that results from a constant and gentle vibration. The other is the passionate, powerful and immense kind of pleasure that results from a resonant and strong vibration.

A lot of things on the outside can control our emotions. Things such as music and love can take over our emotions so readily and fully that it cannot be helped, so there is no need to bother but to simply experience.

Inspired Action with Intent produces Results

It is not your action that creates what you want, but your intent. Your actions only serve to bring your intent into manifestation. You can’t manifest what you did not create and actions create nothing. Action without intent will be counterproductive and will only serve to destroy. When you create what you want with thought, you will only need one tenth of the effort to achieve your desire.

Never try to force things to happen because you are afraid of what will happen if you don’t take a certain action. Instead, choose inspired action that moves you toward what you want, not away from what you don’t want. Inspired action always feels easy and effortless. Action taken out of fear, worry or doubt always feels forced and stressful. Acting on your intentions without trying to force things to happen will magnetize your desires by attracting people, places and opportunities into your reality that you never would have even seen if you hadn’t done so.

You can reduce the need for action to a very minimum by allowing yourself to focus on what you desire until you feel the positive energy begin to move within you. This energy is not based on doubt, fear, anxiety, worry or need. If you focus on what you want instead of what you don’t want, you will know when it is time to take action. When you do, it will be effortless. Doors open and the entire universe will conspire to assist you in your desire. Focus on your intent and do not take action until you feel positive emotion within you. In that moment you will know what to do. When you take action it will be the right thing at the right time.

Many people end up frustrated and discouraged at their lack of results because they fail to connect thought with personal action. They may think about what they want in the beginning and then go off to work without a thought about their desires for the rest of the time. Or even worse, them may get caught up in the problems of the day and begin to doubt or fear not getting what they want. These thoughts then go to work to create the negative images that are being created throughout the day in their minds, which completely overpower any benefit from their earlier positive thoughts.

We must bring our dreams into our actions. Bring your thoughts, your dreams, your visions and think about these things as you are taking action in your present environment. You must hold the vision of what you want in your mind and take action now. Don’t try to come up with some new, incredible scheme to get what you want. Most of the time the things you want will come from the actions you’ve been taking in your present situation. Bring your powerful thought energy into your actions in order to attract what you desire, through existing channels.

Every action can be made powerful and successful by holding your vision while doing it, and putting your whole purpose and faith in it. Most people fail by separating mental power from personal action. They use the power of mind at one place and time, and then they act at another place and time. So their actions are inefficient and unsuccessful. But if all power both mental and physical goes into every act, no matter how ordinary, every act will be a success in itself. Every success opens the way to other success therefore your progress towards what you want as well as what you want towards you, will become increasingly rapid.

The things you desire can come to you indirectly through people related to your present work, circumstances or your leisure activities. A miracle can come from anywhere, so always empower your actions and your life with the visions of what you desire, and do all that you can do each and every day. Let the vision of what you want empower you in everything you do. Think and act as if your desires are reality now. Focus on your intent in everything you do.

Rich people create what they want with thought and the right actions come along for them to step into their desires. That is why every little thing that they do gets back so much and opportunities seem to fall upon them easily. Poor people create what they want with action while focusing on what they do not want. That is why they do so much only to get so little and life is such a struggle for them. The rich do most of their work mentally while the poor do most of their work physically. The rich know the secret that the universe is mental and everything is created by thought.

Taking The Right Positive Action towards your Desires

Don’t hesitate to move on your ideas and respond to situations that call for action in order to keep the momentum going. If you’re sitting waiting for something to happen, doing other “important” tasks rather than those that you know will produce the results you desire, you are wasting time and you are no closer to your desire. You may realize that you have waited for so many things in your life that never showed up!

Act on your desire in order to get to where you want to be. Waiting will not do it. The best men are not those who have waited for chances, but who have taken them, and made chance the servitor. It is better to act first and apologize later than to seek permission first. We often wait for the feeling to be right first, before we take the action we know will bring us satisfaction. The feeling of satisfaction only comes from accomplishment, not from pondering and procrastinating. Take immediate action, not out of fear or to force things to happen, but because the next action you take brings you one step closer to your desire and you will see tremendous results come into your life.

Sometimes opportunity knocks but sometimes you must knock. If you truly desire what is behind the door, you will knock until it opens. Sometimes you may even have to break down the door to get through to what you want. The difference between using the force out of power and using the force out of fear, doubt or worry, is that when you are powerful, you know what it is you are doing and are doing it powerfully. It doesn’t feel forced but liberating to you.

As soon as you know your desire, have asked for it, and are experiencing it in your mental world, you must then take steps towards it and allow the universe to manifest your desire into your physical reality. Although the universe will bring into your physical reality anything you ask for, it will accelerate the process greatly if your also take physical action towards your desires. This is does not of course mean that you physically have to go out there and do everything yourself. You simply have to take positive steps in the direction of your desire which reinforces your claim that it already exists in your present reality.

The vibrations of your physical actions also firmly impress upon your subconscious mind your total commitment to realizing your desires. If you have your subconscious mind as well as your conscious mind influencing all the energy of reality in the direction of bringing the object of your desire into your physical reality, it will be much more powerful and your desires will manifest sooner as a result. Reality creation happens through metaphysical and physical means. Both intention and action are necessary for creating what you want.

For example you wish to manifest a new house, you should take positive actions to physically go out and look for one. You do not have to worry about whether you can afford it or not, that would be a negative emotion resulting in the negative influence of energy. Anyway the realization of your house is not your concern, it is for God and the universe to take care of the manifestation of your desires into your reality. Manifestation is a balance of taking action and letting it happen. Perfect manifestation is a combination of intention and detachment.

In the case of your new house, the very act of physically going out and looking for the house of your desires will not only project the positive energy of intent, but will also produce other emotions such as excitement and expectation all of which will add to the net effect of positive energy in realizing your desires. The more you physically take steps in the direction of your desire, the more positive emotion you will generate and the more you can integrate the object of your desire as part of your being. The more powerful also will be the effect, and the sooner you will be able to realize it within your physical reality. That’s the reason to act as if your desire is reality.

Massive action results in massive manifestation. The more you want something the more focused you must be in your actions towards getting it. The bigger and the more frequent the action you take, the better it is but take some sort of action you must. Never wait until tomorrow, because the next day you will defer until tomorrow again, and you will never take that important first action in the direction of your desires.

Powerful Affirmations.

Please begin the new you by watching this powerful affirmation video

Love Potion

Kevoo's Brew Lust Potion
§ Athame
§ Red Candle
§ Cauldron
§ Wine
§ 2 Clove leaves
§ Powdered Cumin herb
1. Meditate and then light a red candle.
2. Put the Wine in a small vessel.
3. Take the Cumin and put it in a small cauldron saying: "Oh, Cumin, herb of mars,
bring love and lust to whoever may quench her lover's thirst with this potion"
4. Hold your Athame with it's point in the herb and visualize your desire. Say: "Cumin,
bring forth the lust!"
5. Mix the Cumin with the wine.
6. Do the same with the cloves and recite the incantations: "Cloves, Herb of Jupiter,
give your power of attraction to she who shall use this potion" and "Cloves, bring
forth attraction!"
7. Remove the cloves before use. mix the potion with red wine and give it to your lover
for a night of pure lust.

How To Communicate With Your Subconscious Mind

The best way to communicate with the subconscious mind is by doing a self hypnosis. Here's a quick and easy way to do a self hypnosis.

Hypnosis is a Biofeedback Mechanism.
So self hypnosis is simply creating a biofeedback mechanism in yourself.

You start with 2 verifiable visual statements.

I am looking at the lamp in front of me.
I can see the bright light shining against the wall.
I see the shadows in between the light.

Then you go to auditory.

I can hear the sounds of children playing outside.
I can hear the soft hum of the refrigerator in the kitchen.
And I can hear the wind gently blowing against the window pane.

Then kinesthetic.

I can feel the weight of my body in the chair.
I can feel the warmth of my skin against my clothes.
I can feel the feeling of my feet flat on the floor.

Then you do 2 visual, 2 auditory and 2 kinesthetic.
Then you do 1 of each.
Then you give yourself hypnotic commands.
I am slipping into a nice deep trance.

Then you use visuals to communicate with the subconscious.
(Imagining your hand getting cold, colder and colder like ice) this will produce the feeling of numbness in your hand.

Get the picture?
You should practice going in and out of trance a dozen or so times until your are confident with your abilities, before you attempt any hypnotic phenomenon
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Autogenic Conditioning.

You simply use affirmations to make yourself relaxed
"My feet are heavy and warm" 3 times
I am relaxing
My calves are limp and loose"
I am relaxing.
After each affirmation you might say "thats true" or "thats right" to affirm that the affirmations are working.
The affirmations tell your brain to send blood to the feet and calves, expanding the arteries and making them relaxed.
Do this with every major muscle group in your body.
Then give yourself suggestions. Whatever you want to achieved...

I also recommend Cal Banyan-7path self hypnosis. Do a google search on it.

good luck.